Are you overly tired of a your man who oftens cheat on you?
You wanna quit the relationship but still you love him?
Try these 10 basic tricks and your man will never cheat again.
1. Be willing to initiate sex.
Many men see your interest in sex as a measurement of their own desirability. Help your boyfriend or husband feel desired by making sure he knows how badly you want him.
2. Be open to experimentation.
It can be easy to get comfortable, and fear of the unknown may stop you from being open to different sexual experiences. Let your boyfriend or husband know that you’re willing and eager to try new things with you.
I’m not saying you should engage in any kind of sexual activity you find repulsive, but open your mind to the idea of being playful and experiencing new things with the man you love.
3. Don’t be overly accommodating.
Sometimes in a relationship, a woman can become too accommodating. Men get into relationships with a very clear picture of what a lifetime partner looks like and this is often in stark contrast to whom he may have dated casually.
Women work to become the person their partner wants them to be, and in doing so, they lose themselves. Then one day, the man realizes this is may he asked for — but he ‘s no longer sure it’s what he really wants.
Maintain a healthy sense of self in your relationship and be true to who you really are, not who you think he wants you to be.
4. Take care not to become controlling.
Often without realizing it, when we get into relationships, we attempt to control the other person so they’ll do what works best for us.
This means engaging in destructive relationship habits such as complaining, blaming, criticizing, nagging, threatening, punishing and bribing or rewarding in order to control.
5. Make sure he knows how much you appreciate him
Sometimes when women get the guy and get married, they begin to get a false sense of security. Remember, being in a relationship with soneome is voluntary. A person can leave at any time.
With the divorce rate in this country, we need to remember how important it is to maintain a positive relationship, not simply to acquire one.
6. Encourage him to take time for himself
Some men cheat because they begin to feel hemmed-in by the relationship. Engaging in an affair can provide them the sense of freedom they lose in a relationship.
Allow your man time for himself without you. Don’t try to monopolize all your guy’s time. Be open to time apart for him to spend with friends, pursue hobbies, etc. so he does not feel he has no freedom.
7. Be aware of your emotions
Whether or not we are aware of it, women are masters at using their emotions to communicate volumes without speaking any words. We communicate anger, rage, sadness, and disappointment that is received by our partners.
Instead of taking that as a cue to do something different, some men begin to look for another partner who idolizes them the way you used to. Don’t forget, your man wants to know he lights you up — not that he is constantly disappointing you.
8. Prioritize your relationship
Often, when a man cheats, you will find the woman is also having an affair that’s not sexual. It’s more socially appropriate.
This affair takes the form of prioritizing something — anything — over the relationship. This could be a job, children, a sick relative, a charity or anything that puts her man lower on her totem pole than the first position.
Prioritize your relationship over everything else. This is the relationship you want to last for all your life. Other things will fade away and the relationship will still be there if you tend to it carefully.
9. Learn his love language
If you are not familiar with Dr. Gary Chapman’s “The Five Love Languages”, please read it. It has powerful potential to save marriages.
Learn your man’s love language and speak it to him regularly. He will know he is loved and remain true to you.
10. Recognize his relationship patterns
I don’t know how to combat the biology argument. Some men simply believe it is hard-wired into their genes to have sexual relations with as many women as they can.
If this is your boyfriend or husband’s belief, it probably won’t matter what you do. He’s going to cheat.
Try to recognize men like this early on by asking about their dating history. If this is a pattern, he probably isn’t likely to change just because you love him “best.”
Your best defense against this problem is being discriminating from the start.